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Are you new to dating in Vancouver, has it been along time since you last dated? I recommend that no matter how shy you are, accepting all invitations, you never know who you might meet. What is the worst thing that can happen really? You may just meet an amazing person, just waiting for you to take that first step.
DO:
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1. Make sure you connect with the host/hostess, ask them to introduce you to some of the other guests
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2. Wear a conversation piece (It can be as simple as a unique accessory) It will give others something to talk to you about
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3. Compliment others............ (if you look hard enough, you will see something you like on anyone you would like to talk to)
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4. If it is a home party, bring something fabulous to share, maybe your favourite appie or some great wine that can be a subject of conversation (it also shows that you are thoughtful)
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5. Dress appropriately for the occasion, if in doubt ask the host /hostess (first impressions are so important)
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6. Talk to everyone, including the couples, they may have an amazing single friend or family member they are dying to introduce you to
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7. Ask open ended questions, giving the other party the opportunity to share with you
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8. Keep the conversation light, ex. your last trip, activities you enjoy
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9. Be positive, everyone wants to be around a positive force
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10. Above all else, make sure that you SMILE, so that everyone can see that you are approachable
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DON'T:
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1. Don’t put unrealistic expectations on the event
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2. Do not vent your anger about your ex
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3. If it is a work function, do not hit on your co-workers, employees, your boss or his wife
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4. Do not drink excessively to bolster your confidence, nothing worse than spilling your guts (or anything you ate) with someone you just met
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5. Do not talk endlessly about yourself, your accomplishments, or your monetary goods
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6. Do not tell them that they remind you of your ex, (even if they could be their twin)
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7. Do not criticize anything they are wearing (even if it is the sweater that grandma just gave them)
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8. Do not hit on their friend or the waitress
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9. Do not ask them what they want for breakfast
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10. [Women] Do not confess that you are desperate for a baby (even if your biological clock is about to explode)
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11. [Men] Do not ask for their number, say you are going to call and then don’t (Women hate this!)
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12. Do not under any circumstance share why your last relationship broke up, especially if you were the reason (Cheating, lying, drinking, etc.) there will be lots of time for that on your second date
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