Do You Believe….. In Love?
How many of you have uttered the words “there aren’t any good men (or women) out there”? Usually right after finding out your latest date or relationship was not really what you were hoping it would be. Right?
If you have read “the secret” or “the power of positive thinking” both of them state that if we “believe” we can manifest what we desire. I’m not sure if this is true of everything but I do know if you believe there is someone out there for you, you will have a better chance of attracting it. You have to believe that you are worthy and capable of a respectful loving relationship, if you don’t, why should anyone else?
I know you have heard it before, “it all starts with you” but it really does.Instead of stating a negative, start with a positive. “I am ready for a truly respectful loving relationship and I know there is an amazing person out there just for me”. The truth is there are probably many, we just need to find the right ones. Your mantra can be worded any way that makes you feel positive about who you want to welcome into your life, but the trick is you really have to believe it. If you are convinced there is no one out there for you, you will actually deter people. No one is attracted to negativity!
I have said it before, but it really works, nothing opens up the door for communication faster than a smile. Consider it a welcome mat, not everyone will come in, but someone that is interested will. I don’t think anyone has ever said “I wish I had smiled less”. Vancouver really does have some amazing wonderful men and women here, the trick is being open, ready, positive, have faith and Believe. You never know who might be just around the corner. I Believe, do you?