Why is everyone else getting everything you want!
Sometimes it seems that some men or women get all the attention, yet others get none. Sometimes you may wish that you were one of “them” other times you can thank god that you are not. Would you really want to be pursued just for your looks? Wait don’t answer that. 🙂 We all want to think that there is a lot more to us than just the physical appearance. Thank god we are all different though, how boring it would be if we all looked like Angelina Jolie or Brad Pitt. (Not really either of my picks ,but you know what I mean)
I am always surprised at the unrealistic expectations that a lot of singles have. Let’s face it ladies, most of us would like someone that looks like George Clooney, treats us like a queen and has millions of dollars he wants to share with us. Realistically we would really be happy if we found a man that would love, respect, emotionally and physically support us and commit .. . Sorry I just said the C word. Men I know that you want a beautiful sweet young thing that worships you as a sex god and will jump at your every word. Realistically you would be happy with a woman that loved, respected, worshiped you as a sex god, fed you often and let you watch the games without complaining, am I right?
So maybe it is not what we don`t have that is important but that our expectations are unrealistic. No one is perfect and the more you are convinced that you have to wait for the perfect man or woman, the harder it will be to find MR. or MRS. right. That`s not to say that I think that you should settle, but that you really do honestly have to look at what really is important. Men just ask a man that has been taken to the cleaners by a sweet young thing after she cheats on him with her younger stud muffin (that she is supporting with your money). I have talked to many men who are honestly surprised when it happens. What did you think she was looking at, it wasn`t your 40-50 year old butt in those jeans, it was your wallet. Women do you honestly want to be controlled by George or Brad, how would you feel about all the women in the world lusting after them and who wants to date a man that is prettier than them……no thanks. Take a good long look in the mirror,explore what you bring to the table and sit down and make a list about what is really important for you to be happy in a relationship. Throw away the wish list and be honest. I think that might be a good place to start. I welcome your thoughts about this.